How we help Selden owners in mortgage arrears
We have had the behind-on-mortgage-payments conversation with a great many Long Island owners, and it never starts with the house. It starts with the payoff figure, because the gap between what is owed, arrears included, and what a Selden house is worth decides which options are genuinely open.
Get that number in writing from the servicer. Then call us and we will walk through what it means, including the routes that do not involve selling to us at all.
What to do about missed mortgage payments on a Selden house
You can catch up, through a modification, forbearance or refinance, and where that is achievable it is usually the best outcome for the household. You can sell, which clears the missed mortgage payments and the mortgage together and protects any equity behind them. Or you can do nothing and let the process run, which is almost always the worst of the three.
We only do the middle one. We will still tell you plainly when the first one looks like the better fit for your mortgage situation, and we will make the introduction to somebody who handles it.
Why local knowledge changes the number
A four-bedroom on Corvette Road. In Selden, bought and paid for by us.
Selden is roughly 21,262 people in Suffolk County, ZIP 11784, and the housing stock is mostly ranch, hi-ranch, cape cod. Around Middle Country Road and Boyle Road, most of it is old enough that the mechanicals are on their second or third life. We have been buying across Suffolk County for 15+ years. We know what the Middle Country Central School District does to a resale price, which blocks still have oil tanks in the ground, and what a house like yours is actually worth here.
What the payoff includes that your statement does not
Two numbers settle everything here: the mortgage payoff including missed payments, and what the house is genuinely worth today.
We will put the second one in writing for you after one visit, at no cost. The first one only the servicer can give you. If the house is worth more than the mortgage payoff, selling clears the missed payments and you keep the difference. If it is not, you are looking at a short sale, and we can work one of those with you rather than sending you elsewhere.
Why waiting makes missed Selden mortgage payments more expensive
The slow pace of all this in New York is the trap. Nothing appears to happen for long stretches, so waiting feels safe, and the missed mortgage payments climb quietly the whole time.
People assume the dangerous moment is a court date. Financially, the damage accumulates for months before that. By the time missed mortgage payments reach the later stages, the mortgage payoff can be materially higher than the original balance, and the difference is money that would otherwise have been yours.
What you do not pay when you sell a house in mortgage arrears
These are the costs of putting a house in mortgage arrears on the market through an agent. None of them apply when you sell to us.
- Agent commission
- $31,859 at 5% of the Selden median none
- Seller closing costs
- About $12,743 on a $637,173 sale. We can cover these. none
- Repairs to make it listable
- Whatever it takes to make it listable, paid in advance none
- Cleanout and removal
- Per truckload, before anyone views it none
- Carrying costs while it waits
- Taxes, insurance and utilities while you spend 68 to 83 days finding a buyer and waiting for their loan none
A private sale while you are behind on the mortgage
Court filings become public record, which owners in arrears usually discover at the worst possible moment. A private sale does not.
We buy directly, so the only people who know are the ones you tell and the attorneys handling the closing. You choose the date, you tell whoever you want to tell, and nothing about the arrears gets advertised in your own neighborhood.
What the two paths cost in Selden
These are the two routes open to you with a house in mortgage arrears, priced against what Selden houses actually sell for.
Work it against Selden's own numbers. The median sale here is $637,173. A 5% commission on that is $31,859, and seller closing costs of about 2% add roughly $12,743. Those are costs we can cover on our side. That is $44,602 gone before anyone counts the repairs it took to get the house listable.
There are two waits in a listed sale and people usually only count the first. In Selden the median house takes about 23 days to go from listed to a signed contract. Then it waits again, typically 45 to 60 days, while the buyer's lender orders an appraisal and underwrites the loan. Call it 68 to 83 days from sign to keys, assuming nothing goes wrong.
The part worth understanding is what a signed contract actually guarantees, which is less than most sellers assume. A retail buyer with a mortgage contingency can walk away right up to the end. If they do not qualify, if the appraisal comes in under the price, if they change their mind and let the financing lapse. A share of deals die exactly there, after months of waiting, and the house goes back on the market with time on it. We are not borrowing anything, so there is no lender to satisfy, no appraisal to come in low and no contingency to exercise.
| Listing with an agent | Selling to us | |
|---|---|---|
| Sale price | $637,173 (Selden median) | Our written offer |
| Commission | −$31,859 | None |
| Seller closing costs | −$12,743 | We can cover them |
| Repairs before listing | Out of pocket | None |
| Cleanout | Yours | Ours |
| Showings | Until it sells | One visit |
| Listed to signed contract | 23 days (Selden median, once listable) | 24 hours to a written offer |
| Contract to closing | 45 to 60 days (waiting on the buyer's lender) | A date you choose |
| Total wait | 68 to 83 days if nothing falls through | Yours to set |
| Can the buyer walk? | Yes (mortgage contingency runs to the end) | No financing to fall through |
| Before repairs and carrying | $592,571 | The number we put in writing |
For the listing side we have used a 5% commission and about 2% in seller closing costs; your real figures may differ. Repairs and carrying costs are left out because they depend on the house. If yours is in good shape, a good agent may well get you more than we would, and we will tell you if so.
From arrears to a filed case in Suffolk County
Early arrears are a workout conversation. Later arrears are a legal one, and by then you want an attorney rather than a phone call.
We work with owners at every stage of this, including cases that have already been filed, and a filed case does not prevent a sale. It adds a clock and some coordination between the attorneys. Tell us where things stand with the arrears on a Selden house and we will be straight with you about whether the timing works.
Common questions
How far behind on the mortgage is too far?
We have bought Suffolk County houses from owners a couple of payments behind and from owners whose arrears had been running a long time. What changes is the payoff and how much room is left in it, not whether there is a conversation worth having.
Can you pay off my arrears and let me stay in the house?
No. We buy houses, we do not lend against them, and we are not going to offer you a rent-back arrangement dressed up as a rescue. Be careful with anyone who does.
Will selling cover the arrears?
That depends entirely on the payoff set against what a Selden house like yours is worth. Get the payoff in writing and we will give you the value in writing, and then you will know rather than guess.
Should I keep making partial payments?
Ask a HUD-approved housing counselor or an attorney before you decide, because servicers treat partial payments differently and some hold them in suspense rather than applying them to the arrears. It is worth one call before you send money.
Does being in arrears stop me selling a Selden house?
Not at all. Owners in arrears sell houses every day. The mortgage, the arrears and the fees are all cleared out of the closing proceeds, which is exactly why the payoff figure decides everything.